smile..

so new mantra in my life is being happy come what may..because lets face it life's too short to cry and whine all the time. i am gonna smile always (that's the plan as of now). through all the fights and disappointments and sad times. my anger is a big problem as most of you already know, to control it i am going to smile. if i want to pull off someones head from their bodies, i am going to refrain from doing that, and smile. if someone irritates me, i'll do nothing but smile back. i don't know if that works but what do i lose in trying. nothing. zilch.

so everyone listen to me, today's moral of the story is smile. just smile.

“You haven't lost your smile at all, it's right under your nose. You just forgot it was there.”

“Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.”

“Smile, even if it's a sad smile, because sadder than a sad smile is the sadness of not knowing how to smile.”

statement of purpose in life

we have one life to live. one life to do everything we wish for. one life to dream and fulfill them. one life to ease a little suffering in lives around you. just one life and so much to do. isn't it funny how everything to us is always about us. me. i.

so i have made up my mind it is not going to be that way any longer. it is no longer going to be all about me. its not going to be about what i want, but making others happy is going to be my goal. in this endless selfish life if i can perhaps spare a while for others i am going to be happiest person. and this comes not after endless brain washing speeches by big saints and suchlike but after my own experiences. the best smile is that which you acquire on seeing people happy around you, because of you. the only time you feel satisfied is not after acquiring that huge paycheck or getting a promotion or winning an acknowledgment, but from realizing that you made someone happy.

i know it is not that easy job to do. but it is what i want. see how "i" creeps up everywhere?

so you know what, just smile it just might make someones day!(like mine)

10 rules to date me..

hahahaha..so the other day in my usual jobless glory i met up with one of my friends and one thing led to another and somehow we ended up talking about all the stupid couples we know..so i made up my mind..and these are the rules i am gonna impose if ever "see" some guy!

1.the guy has to live at least 3 kms away from home and not be in my coll..so in case we break up i don't have to see his wretched face until i am in my senses again.

2.not talking on the phone more than an hour ok maybe two. (how can anyone stand the same person's voice the whole day is beyond me!)

3.no issuing fatwas! look i don't care if you don't like my friends i like them, make your peace with them.

4.no more than 2 dates a week. i have other work as well.

5.if my phone bills go above 500 a month, the guy has to pay!

6.make peace with the fact that i will be seen with other guys because lets face it, i have lots many guy friends.

7.don't expect me to tell the guy every little thing.i forget stuff quite easily.and by the way for that i have many best friends and boyfriends seldom make best friends.

8.i can't stand stupid nicknames so please refrain. no i am no ones coochi-co or honey pie or kiddo.

9.i don't like whiners..please don't load me with 500 problems, i have my own.

10.oh and i like surprises. just so everyone knows. =)

so yeah that's it. if i think of anything else i'll add it..eh?

move over globalization..hello indianization!

have you ever wondered where the world is going these days? with the advent of communication and faster transport facilities world is fast becoming one big family, not necessarily happy one at that. and they attribute everything to globalization. well i beg to differ.

i live in India, the next big thing according to every magazine. being Indian has its own quirks. we tend to turn everything to our style. its doesn't matter whether we talk about language, cuisine or even festivals. English is a funny language they say, which can be moulded into anything. best example: hinglish. (which by the way is a real word defined in oxford dictionary as mixture of Hindi and English) its so not uncommon these days to listen something like, "i toh don't like how he talks" or perhaps u mush have heard, "woh potato kitne ka diya?" or maybe lets list songs like, "what is mobile no? what is your style no? karni hai private bate, dede koi easy no.."
enough said.

or maybe take a trip to any indian restaurants, i'll bet anything that u'd find something like paneer pasanda pizza, aloo tikki burger or even lasuni tortilla (!)

you should visit india during western holidays and u'd see the Indian twist in an instant. diyas, and poojas during Christmas, and thats just a start!

go to some country where there is sizable Indian population, you'll see the difference from the locals. we believe making home where ever we go.

so u know..sometimes i think its not globalization thats been on..its indianization..

long live India!

about me

so you think you know me. most people think that. and no one is to blame. i do let people think just that. i don't know why i am writing this topic but then lets face it i don't have any other work..lol..

i have two sides, one what everyone sees so as to say my public interface, which is all happy happy and smiling and good. while there is another side, violent, rebellious, nasty, troubled and selfish. why am i making this public you ask me. my answer is, so you know, that i cant always be the nice girl you have come to know of me and if i hurt you, you know i gave you a warning.

what causes this split in my personality, frankly i don't have any idea whatsoever. but beneath this tough smiling exterior there a fragile person, who cries when someone wrongs her and yet doesn't say a word, who lets go the best things in her life because it'll make someone or the other happy, who'd not wish bad for even people she doesn't like at all, who wants to be hugged at least five times a day. but that story lets leave it for some other time.

and my other side? you better wish it doesn't come out any time soon. because it believes only in destroying everything and i am myself afraid of it.

ok if i have scared/bored you enough by writing long pravachans as some say. I'll stop. yeah now we can all go to being happy again. smile!