hmmm..

me,jinal and two or three other people always end up at CCD, tian for a coffee when we sit for studies and there....hell breaks lose! everyone ends up telling their dukh bhari kahanis or perhaps (lets tone down the melodrama) their life stories. so yesterday while i was supposed to study ecad, we went to, u guessed it, CCD. because i had a huge ass craving for a chocolate donut and jinal had a craving for cafe mocha! so there we discussed everything from the couple who were doing PT on the coffee table to the waiter who didn't understand what jinal was trying to tell him to long time crushes to cute FE guys (lol!) and at that point i realized i NEVER had a long time crush/obsession with someone nothing! my longest crush was what 9-10 months! and i also realized damn i don't even know what i am looking for in a guy while everyone had fixed ideas about their required future alliances. cheers to me the happily single girl..lol. anyways not moving away from the topic I've decided to make a list of qualities i want in a guy. it might be short or long i don't know because before i put this post up its going to be revised three hundred times. and by the way this is not going to be anything like the previous time pass list i put up. so lets start.

1. trustworthy (absolutely important)

2. loyal and honest (again like some people i know say, without honesty nothing lasts)

3. great sense of humor (if they cant make me laugh i'll say bye-bye!for sure)

4. understanding.

5. must know when to speak and when to shup up and let me speak.

6. should respect women. (male chuvnists rejected!)

7. manners and etiquette are really important.

8. should love to joke around and surprise me!

9. should love silly games like i do.

10.yes should be serious at times but not all the time.

11. whiners not allowed

12. should pamper me like a princess (i can dream right!)

13. impromptu plans thumbs up.

14. possiveness is good,excessive possiveness absolutely a no-no.

15. hopefully should be VERY comfortable wid my friends and family.

16. 50 phone calls a day--not allowed!

17. something called personal space should be present.

18. have a good dressing sense (really i dont want to be seen around with someone who resembles govinda from his younger days!)

19. should be independent and know his mind.

20. bossing me is not allowed.